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They say that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but over the last eight months or so since my Mum died, I’ve been trying to prove that old adage wrong. You see my dear old Dad is one of those people who has managed to get through life without learning to cook. This is a man who once cut a quote out of the paper from the Aussie cricketer Mark Waugh and proudly stuck it on the fridge.

‘I make tea and toast, what else can you expect a man to do.’

Sums up my Dad and his former kitchen enterprises all right. Although to be fair he did make a mean porridge in the winter months, stirring on the stove old-school style to produce that gorgeously hearty rib-sticking texture. No micro-waving for my Dad.

While we have had some success in the new tricks department when it comes to putting on a load of washing, packing and unpacking the dishwasher, vacuuming the floor with my Mum’s beloved Dyson, and even changing the sheets, to say that progress in the cooking department has been less than stellar is a serious understatement.

As someone who claims to have allergies to wheat, dairy, eggs and peas, my Dad isn’t exactly the easiest to feed. So meat and veg seemed like a good place to start. I’m a massive fan of roasting in general and roast veg in particular so one of the first things we tried was roast pumpkin, potato, onion and sweet potato. Easy. Just scrub the veg, cut into chunks, toss with a little oil and bake at 180C for about an hour turning every now and then until crispy on the outside and soft in the middle.

But somehow my Dad seems to have a selective memory when it comes to things culinary and since we’ve been embarking on this journey together I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had the following conversation on my daily call to Dad on my way home from work.

Jules:  “So Dad what are you planning for dinner?”

Dad:  “Well Jul, hadn’t really thought about it – maybe some veggies”

Jules:  “Veggies sound good, how were you thinking about cooking them?”

Dad:  “Ohh I don’t know, maybe popping them in a saucepan and boiling them”

Jules:  “You know if I were you I’d probable roast them Dad. Roast veggies taste heaps better and you don’t have the problem of leaching the water soluble vitamins into the cooking water”

Dad:  “Roasting hey? Well that sounds good. So what sort of a thing would I need to put them in?”

Jules:  “How about the roasting tray?”

Dad:  “Roasting tray? What does that look like?”

And so it goes, time after time. With me describing our stainless steel roasting tray and giving instructions to turn the oven on as soon as he gets off the phone so it preheats while he is prepping the veg. To be fair he usually gives it a go and when I check in the next day, he seems pretty happy with the results. But it really amazes, and to be honest, dis-heartens me is that each time we have to go through the whole discussion from scratch. Sure I’ve written it down and have even started a cookbook for Dad to stick recipes in, but he forgets that the book exists, so he doesn’t even think to look there for instructions. It seems pretty mean to say ‘why don’t you just read what I wrote’ when we’re on the phone already, so I keep on explaining. Like teaching a goldfish with their famous three second memory really.

In the beginning I had visions of turning our culinary adventure into a book. A story of me teaching Dad to cook, complete with recipes and photos taken by me of Dad’s creations. A very basic cookbook for new-comers to the kitchen. And while I’m feeling more and more like that dream will never come to fruition, I haven’t given up hope completely. Each month when I visit the farm for a bit of out-of-the-city relaxation, I’ve still been encouraging Dad in the kitchen.

My Dad is as big a fan of lambshanks as am I and we’ve often lamented that God chose to create sheep with only four legs. What was wrong with six or even eight? So this weekend when I was at the farm I decided to have a shot at teaching Dad a basic shank dish. Think melt-in-the-mouth meat nestled in a rich tomatoey-winey sauce with a few veg and nutty chickpeas. A meal in one pot that just needs a few minutes of prep and then four hours or so in the oven. Something that even a goldfish would be able to remember, at least I hope.

simple lambshanks with chickpeas
serves 6

If you don’t have the inclination to soak chickpeas, you could always go for the canned variety and just drain and add to the pot about half an hour before everything is done. But if you’re lucky enough to have a stash of lamb shanks in the deep freeze like my dad, just put the chickpeas in to soak when you get the shanks out of the freezer and you’ll be rewarded with the chickpeas taking on the rich flavours of the sauce.

Feel free to play around with the types of veggies you use. If you’re anything like my Irish connection, you’d probably feel like doing away with the chickpeas and subbing in some scrubbed kipfler potatoes and by all means go ahead.

375g (13oz) dried chickpeas, soaked overnight (or as long as you’ve got)
6 lamb shanks, thawed
3 brown onions, peeled & quartered lengthwise
3 cloves garlic, unpeeled
3 medium carrots quartered lengthwise
1 x 400g (14oz) can tomatoes
4C chicken stock
2C white wine, red wine, beer, more stock, or just water
3 sprigs rosemary, optional
3 sprigs thyme, optional
crusty bread, to serve

Preheat oven to 160C (320F). Place shanks in a large oven proof casserole dish. Add onion, garlic, carrots, tomatoes and their juices, stock, wine or other liquid and herbs. Drain chickpeas and scatter over the top. Season with approx 1teaspoon salt and plenty of black pepper. Cover with a lid or foil and place in the oven.

Bake for 4-5 hours or until shanks are meltingly tender and the meat is starting to fall off the bone. You can either serve now with crusty bread and a green salad or allow to cool. Refrigerate until needed up to about a week.

When ready to serve preheat oven to 180C (350F). Skim solidified fat from the surface of the shanks and place shanks, uncovered in the oven for 15-20mins or until heated through. Serve as above.


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  • Hi Jules

    Haven’t commented in a while, but still read weekly…had to let you know that this recipe looks soul warmingly fabulous, just the thing for the wintry weather thats crept into adelaide. I will definitely be giving this one a go, especially after the rave reviews from some of your other creations!


  • Aw, bless. Good luck to you both! I have some idea of what it’s like – my dad’s just the same. The additional frustration for me, though, is that he used to cook all the time – and well – when I was little (when my mum was ill, and then after she died). But since I left home, he’s done nothing. Now, though, he’s showing signs of taking an interest again. This dish would be right up his street, too.

  • Gorgeous Jules…will be trying this recipe… and your photographs… wow, they continue to be so incredibly crisp and vivid… I need some tips! Dinner soon?

  • Have you ever seen something more comforting than those lambshanks all neatly tucked together in a casserole. Wonderful.

  • Gorgeous shanks! And once you’re done teaching your dad how to cook, want to tackle mine? Mind you, my father is a tad more hopeless – we’ve lost hope of ever teaching him how to make fried eggs :( Or, I could just wait for you to write that book :)

  • Hi Jules, I cooked this on Monday! It was fantastic and we (my kids and partner) loved it…. it’s definitely a keeper! Thanks for sharing all the recipes. Cheers.

  • I recently stumbled across your blog and love it!! I just moved out of home and as a novice cook I find your blog so inspiring. I cooked your lambshanks w chickpeas earlier this week and and also the lambshank pies and both were delicious meals, best things I have ever cooked. Thanks and keep on blogging :)

  • I just made this recipe last night and it was so easy that it seems like it should not be so delicious. Hub even liked the chickpeas which is huge. I substituted a bit of tomato paste because I didn’t have canned, but still lovely.

  • I’m a big fan of lamb and one look simple and great. May I suggest using for your dad. You can clip interesting and easy recipes for your dad and hopefully he can follow them :)

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